“Criticism is more effective when it sounds like praise.” Arnold H. Glasow, one of America’s most quoted humorists
Translation for Adults
Criticism can be a constructive tool to help others be better without making them feel bad. Using construc- tive criticism correctly is challenging, especially when criticizing a spouse, friend or family member. Learn how to use criticism, as praise, and it will be accepted as positive reinforcement. For example, when speak- ing to a co-worker, instead of saying, “You really need to work on your presentation,” say, “Your report was excellent, you can make it even better if you…” The opening praise helps to disguise the criticism. Your
co-worker, or anyone, will be more receptive to your message when you phrase your criticism correctly.
Translation for Kids
Always be very careful when you decide to criticize a family member or a friend. If you criticize them incor- rectly, then you could easily hurt their feelings or your friendship. The best way to criticize others is to praise them first. There are many times at school when your positive criticism could help someone be better, with- out making them feel bad. Maybe one of your friends received a low score on a test. Instead of saying, “Wow! You really need to study more,” you could say, “You always do so great in class. I bet if you studied a little bit more, you could do really great on those tests too.” Praise first, and then criticize; you’ll help others be better.
Class Discussion for Kids
- Give an example of positive
- When is a good time to use this positive criticism?
The Rochester Kung Fu & Fitness was founded in 2005 by Master Paul Gruschow, Rochester Kung Fu & Fitness’s lessons for pre-school children ages 3-6 and elementary age kids ages 7 and up are designed to develop the critical building blocks kids need – specialized for their age group – for school excellence and later success in life.
Rochester Kung Fu & Fitness’s adult program is a complete adult fitness and conditioning program for adults who want to lose weight, get (and stay in shape) or learn self-defense in a supportive environment.
Rochester Kung Fu and Fitness has a large family program, where families can learn martial arts and character in a friendly supportive environment. Where families together can improve their physical development with their Kung Fu and improve their character and learn lifelong skills as a family.
Instructors can answer questions or be contacted 24 hours a day, 7 days a week at Rochester Kung Fu & Fitness or call directly at 585-413-0835. You can also visit our website at Greecekungfu.com.
About Master Paul J. Gruschow: Paul is a Ninth-Generation Master of the 7-Star Praying Mantis Kung Fu System under world renowned Grand Master Raymond Fogg and the United States Kung Fu Exchange Federation. Master Paul Gruschow sits on the board of the United States Kung Fu Exchange Federation as well. He has been teaching martial arts for over 20 years and has created many top internationally ranked competitors. Master Gruschow is a motivational speaker and educator and teaches seminars in bullying, self-defense, and martial arts training, around the world.
The Rochester Kung Fu & Fitness is located at 2496 West Ridge Rd, Rochester NY 14626.
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